Should Christian Young Women Go To College?

Should Christian young women go to college? This is a question that I get a lot. There is the school of thought that college is a waste of time for a godly young woman. It is assumed that, when married, the young lady will stay home and keep house, take care of the children, and her husband. Ideally this is a wonderful model. (I realize that in today's society, this is a very chauvinistic idea, but I don't think so.)
Firstly, a young lady should not be waiting for marriage. As a woman who has been given gifts and talents by her creator, she should be using them to further His kingdom. God will bring marriage in His time if it is His will. Secondly, just because a girl has dreams of marriage, it does not mean that God's plans for her are the same. I have heard it said too many times, "She really wants to be married, so God would not leave her single." I am glad that those making that statement are now deciding what the perfect mind of God will think next. I have known several girls, who were set on marriage through high school and college and have yet to be married. They may never. It is then important to be able to support one's self. Thirdly, marriage may not last forever. I am not speaking of divorce, but of separation through death. If a woman were widowed, then it would be wonderful for her to be able to make a living. I agree that the church should help to support her, but they may not have the finances to carry the whole weight of her financial burden. Fourthly, the kids grow up and go to college. The children are grown, the house is in order and dad is trying to pay for two or three of them at a time to go to college. Yes, there are minimum wage jobs that could help, but wow, what one could do with a college career. Finally, there are many men who have good jobs, but do not make enough to support all of the needs of the family. My sister-in-law has been a stay-at-home mom since my niece and nephew were born. My brother works very hard and does pretty well, but there are unforeseen car repairs, braces and other such expenses that may not fit the budget. She has an accounting degree and is able to work from home and still maintain the home and spend time with the children.
I believe that God has called me to work in the ministry of a private school. My wife wholeheartedly agrees. I would love to make enough money for her to stay home. That is not what God has planned for us yet. I will continue to guide young ladies toward college, until God sends them a different direction.

Thanksgiving

I love this time of year; the beautiful colors, warm fires, and Thanksgiving. A gray day in the Pacific Northwest can be a wonderful thing. Grocery stores are one of my favorite destinations during this season. The ends of the aisles are packed with a cornucopia of delicious ingredients. I was at Haggen last night with my son, and my eyes and nose were filled with the wonder of bagged walnuts, condensed milk, bread crumbs for stuffing, baking flour, brown sugar, various spices and a plethora of other delightful items, not to mention the fresh baked pumpkin pies in the bakery.
Putting these earthly pleasures behind, I truly love the gathering of family. Aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, siblings and parents all coming together in festive fall-colored clothing that leaves only the flesh of the face exposed. Everyone sharing pictures and stories from the past year and young parents showing off their new family additions whose presence ensures gatherings of this kind for years to come.
The pinnacle of the Thanksgiving season is giving thanks to the one and only true God of the Bible, giving Him praise and thanks first and foremost for the gift of His Son Jesus Christ, the Savior of the world who came to this earth as God in the form of man to be the one and only Way, Truth and Life.
This has, for many years, left me asking the question, "To whom is everyone else giving thanks?" The very act of giving thanks lends itself to having to give that thanks to someone or something. I obviously do not have the market cornered on praising God. When I ask my question, I am not including other God fearing believers of Jesus Christ. I am simply wondering whom atheists are thanking. How about evolutionists? Then there are those who claim to believe in nothing. Who are they thanking? No one or nothing I guess. Or perhaps in our humanistic world, they are thanking themselves. How bold to thank one's self for every good thing and for life and breath.

The Right to Vote at a Polling Place

I live in Snohomish County, located in the northwestern region of Washington State. Last year our county government decided that all registered voters would vote absentee. This means that I no longer have the right to drive to my local school library or Sons of Norway Hall and take my place in a voting booth and cast my vote. No longer will little elderly ladies greet me, whose joy is to help voters in the voting process and then place an "I Voted" sticker on your shirt or jacket.
In this past election, taking place on November 6, 2007, we once again received our absentee ballots in the mail. My wife and I then dropped them off at our local QFC grocery store. I have no problem with soldiers, shut-in folks or people working long shifts, signing up for absentee ballots, but I have a major problem with every registered voter being required to vote in this manner.
I wonder if the absentee method is really that much of a money saver. Most of the women and men at the polling places were volunteers and let us just look at the votes sent out versus the votes sent back. About 34 percent of the 333,618 ballots sent out were returned. That leaves us with a grand total of 220,250 ballots that went into the trash. How is that good stewardship? The incredible waste of paper, not to mention the printing and postage costs.
It is believed that this absentee method will encourage more people to vote. Voting is a right and a privilege. There should be effort involved. Maintaining a republic is not easy. It takes work. It takes sweat. If people choose not to make this effort or take advantage of this right, then that is their choice and they have forfeit that right.
Chances are, the people who are sending in the absentee ballots were the same folks who were greeted by those dear volunteers. Voters who would trudge through the elements to claim their right to vote.

Are We Still Teaching Manners?

Last night I attended a band concert at my nephew's middle school. He has just entered the sixth grade and has played the trumpet now for about four to five weeks. It was a wonderful time. I was regrettably reminded of how casual our society has become. Perhaps it is just because we are in the Northwest and folks here are very informal, they don't even understand RSVP.
Before the music started, the director had to remind the audience not to walk around or talk during the songs. I was surprised that she didn't have to remind us to turn off our cell phones. What happened to respect and courtesy for others? We have let those ideas depart like the Dodo. Why do grown adults have to be told how to act in public? Because each one looks out for his or her self. If someone asks them to get manners, they feel that some inalienable right of theirs has been infringed upon. The director had to preface her warning with, "your children have worked very hard on these songs." We should know that they have worked very hard and not have to be reminded. Besides, it should not just be for the kids that we are quiet, but for the love of those around us who are trying to enjoy the music.
Turn off your phone at public events! If you should forget, then turn it off immediately. Do not answer it and begin talking like a guy did in a movie that my brother and his wife were attending a while back. This guy carried on a loud, full on conversation.
The Golden Rule, a very Biblical principle, applies here: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."

How Do Christians Choose a Candidate?

With Giuliani as the Republican frontrunner, the question arises, "Can I, as a Christian, vote for a man who is Pro Choice?" It has been suggested to me that we are not voting for a pastor, but a president.
Yes, we are to respect the office of the president whether we agree with the president or not. As Christians we are to understand that God put all authority in place. Even though we are not electing a pastor and we are to respect the office, the decision to me has got to be more about the man than not. Someone might say, "So he is Pro Choice, look at what a political conservative he is." All I can say to that is, wow!
I know that it is impossible to legislate morality. For instance if we ban abortion are the girls not going to get abortions somewhere other than clinics with trained professionals? (By-the-way, I do believe that we should ban abortion and that it is murder.) Morality is a heart issue and only Jesus Christ can change hearts.
I want a man that has impeccable moral values. Not a man that has been married three times and believes in abortion. So, I therefore must choose to vote for the candidate, if there is one, who claims Christ as a member of the triune Deity of God and as that candidate's personal Lord and Savior. I want a man who is not afraid of losing political gain, to speak out against abortion, gay marriage, and other sins against the Truth, Jesus Christ. Someone who is not afraid to give up a second term in the name of what is true and right.
Perhaps if he has traveled this far in politics, then he has already compromised along the way. I choose to believe that we can find this man and that God is faithful to His children regardless of who is in office.

2008 Presidential Fiasco

It amazes me that with the millions of people in the United States, we have to settle for the lesser of two evils when selecting a president.
I am a schoolteacher. It really comes as no surprise that when students are asked what they want to be when they grow up, that they no longer want to be president. When I was a kid, president was still the number one answer.
If a child is taught integrity, right from wrong, love thy neighbor, and other good Christian morals; why would they then want to become something that throws all of those lessons out the window. I mean, Bill Clinton's approval rating went up when he was caught having an affair. It could just be that the polling was done at the corner tavern, but unfortunately I don't think that is the case.
We do have a problem however. I believe that if the election were held today, we would end up with another President Clinton. The Christian Right will select another candidate, rather than following strict Republican Party lines, because Giuliani is Pro Choice. This will split the Republican vote and Hillary will win by a minority vote, almost by default.
What is almost worse than Mrs. Clinton or Mr. Giuliani? That would be Mr. Romney. Many Evangelical Christians are excited about Romney and his morals. I would rather have a blatant non-Christian as president than a Christian poser. Romney and the Mormons claim to be Christians. Think of the deceit that could be displayed for our great country. A man claiming to be a Christian, but selling in the wrapper of falsehood that is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.
Well, there is still time. The primary is several months away and the general election is over a year away.
Pray hard people!

What Have You Done to My Stanwood

I am involved with the government in the once small town of Stanwood, Washington. Stanwood was a fabulous place to grow up and go to school and just hang out. A place that seemed boring when I was in high school and yet we never lacked for things to do. From scaring girls at a local cemetery to just hanging out at the beach, we were never really bored.
Unfortunately over the past twenty years, many outsiders have discovered what a wonderful place Stanwood is to live. The problem that I have with people moving into Stanwood from the "big city" or where ever, is that they won't just leave the town the way it was. They are attracted by the "small-town" feeling; the lack of traffic, crime, gangs, etc. The issue becomes that once they have moved into our small rural farming town, these immigrants soon begin missing all of the amenities of the mess that they left behind. Soon the "newbies" fight to get the "big-box" stores and all that come with them and we are soon left with a city that isn't remotely what attracted the new folks in the first place.
If the "pit-of-despair" that you left is so terrible, then why recreate it in my town? Go away! Go back to your one-stop-shopping and your parallel parking. Go back to fast-paced living and take those that came with you.

Christmas Music at Christmastime!

I believe that Christmas music should not be played until Thanksgiving Day and that it should be put away on the 26th of December. I find that if I wait to get out my Christmas music until Thanksgiving Day, then I am longing for it. I have been longing for those old familiar tunes this year since Halloween, but that makes it all the sweeter. Likewise, if I cut myself off on the day after Christmas, then I am not tired of it.
To my older brother and all of those of you who partake year round, it is a semi-free country, do what you like. Just do not infringe on my ears. Let me enjoy my idiosyncrasies and savor that most wonderful music at its appropriate time and season.
Honestly, all holidays should have their time and not overlap with others. But we'll discuss that another day.

Favorite Quotes

"Americans are so enamored of equality that they would rather be equal in slavery that unequal in freedom."
Alexis de Tocqueville

"A true conservative is a man of the future rooted in the past."
Edwin J. Feulner, Ph.D.

"Decisions are made by those who show up."


"I guess this is just another lost cause, Mr. Paine. All you people don't know about lost causes. Mr. Paine does. He said once they were the only causes worth fighting for. And he fought for them once, for the only reason any man ever fights for them; because of just one plain simple rule: 'Love thy neighbor.'... And you know that you fight for the lost causes harder than for any other. Yes, you even die for them."
Jimmy Stewart as "Mr. Smith"

"He who is good at making excuses, is seldom good for anything else."
Benjamin Franklin

"Some people are like slinkies... they are not really good for anything... but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs."
Unknown

"Lack of planning on your part does not constitute and emergency on mine."
Unknown

“Always vote for principle, though you may vote alone, and you may cherish the sweetest reflection that your vote is never lost.”
John Quincy Adams

“Happiness and moral duty are inseparably connected.”
George Washington (1732-1799)

“The greatest sorrow and burden you can lay on the Father, the greatest unkindness you can do to him is not to believe that he loves you.”
John Owen - English Puritan Theologian

"There is no limit to what man can do or where he can go if he doesn't mind who gets the credit."
Unknown

"Start with what is right rather than what is acceptable."
Peter F. Drucker

"Don’t waste time looking for a better job. Do a better job and you’ll have a better job."
S. Truett Cathy (founder of Chick-fil-A)